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一、越长大，越知道做事不容易，越知道每个人都有难处，也就越不敢随随便便的瞧不起谁，以免不小心伤害了谁。这当然不是粉饰，更不是虚伪，而是懂得了体谅和温柔，温柔的和这个世界相处。
The older you grow up, the more you know that its not easy to do things, and the more you know that everyone has difficulties, the less you dare to look down on anyone casually, so as not to hurt anyone carelessly. Of course, this is not whitewash, not hypocrisy, but understanding and gentle, gentle and get along with the world.
二、记住了，如果不爱的话那么就不要给希望，其实，对于你不喜欢的那个人来说，绝情一点未必不是一件好事。
Remember, if you dont love, then dont give hope, in fact, for the person you dont like, absolute love is not necessarily a good thing.
三、不要把自己活得像落难者一样，急着告诉所有人你的不幸。总有一天你会发现，酸甜苦辣要自己尝，漫漫人生要自己过，你所经历的在别人眼里都是故事，也别把所有的事都掏心掏肺的告诉别人，成长本来就是一个孤立无援的过程，你要努力强大起来，然后独当一面。
Dont live like a victim, eager to tell everyone your misfortune. Someday you will find that you have to taste the bitterness and bitterness of life by yourself, and live a long life by yourself. What you experience is a story in other peoples eyes, and dont tell others everything from heart to heart. Growing up is an isolated and helpless process. You should strive to be strong, and then act alone.
四、人一生下就会哭，笑是后来才学会的。所以忧伤是一种低级的本能，而快乐是一种更高级的能力。
People cry all their lives, and laughter is learned later. So sadness is a low-level instinct, while happiness is a higher-level ability.
五、不要期待，不要假想，不要强求，顺其自然，如果注定，便一定会发生。心安，便是活着的最美好状态。
Dont expect, dont imagine, dont demand, let it be, if destined, it will happen. Peace of mind is the best state of being alive.
六、没有谁是因为一时冲动而离开你的，那些难过无助和一次次忍耐的眼泪，你都看不见，你看见的，只是它崩溃的那个瞬间。
No one leaves you on impulse. You cant see those sad, helpless and enduring tears. What you can see is just the moment when it collapses.
七、有些人有些事过去了就过去了，你总不能因为喝水的杯子摔坏了，就再也不喝水了吧。
Some people go by when something goes by. You cant stop drinking because your drinking cup is broken.
八、没有人在意你失去了什么，没有人关心你的不快乐，这个世界不会为了任何人停下前进的步伐，心酸就哭，累了就睡，撒不出气来就去大吃大喝，越是没人爱，就越是要好好爱自己。
No one cares about what you have lost, no one cares about your unhappiness, the world will not stop for anyone to move forward, sad cry, tired sleep, can not breathe out to eat and drink, the more unloved, the better to love themselves.
九、其实活着还真是件美好的事，不在于风景多美多壮观，而是在于遇见了谁，被温暖了一下，然后希望有一天自己也成为一个小太阳，去温暖别人。
Actually, it is a wonderful thing to live, not because of the beautiful scenery, but because of who I met, who I was warmed up, and then I hope that one day I will become a little sun to warm others.
十、你过得太闲，才有时间执着在无意义的事情上，才有时间无病 *** 所谓痛苦。你看那些忙碌的人，他们的时间都花在努力上。
You have too much leisure to have time to persist in meaningless things, and then have time to grope for pain. Look at those busy people. Their time is spent on hard work.
十一、别人给得了你安慰，却永远不知道你心底的痛。不论有多少的委屈，多么的难受，记得最终还是靠自己来治愈。这世上根本没有感同身受，只有冷暖自知。
Others give you comfort, but never know the pain in your heart. No matter how many grievances and how painful they are, remember that they are ultimately cured by themselves. There is no empathy in the world, only self-knowledge of the warmth and the cold.
十二、女人要有骨气，要么谈恋爱到结婚，要么玩玩别当真，要么高傲的单身。何必用自己的青春 *** 别人的老公还那么认真。
Women should have the courage to fall in love and get married, to play and not take it seriously, or to be proud of being single. Why use their youth to teach other peoples hu *** ands to be so serious?
十三、看一个女人是否真的爱你，要看你在饥寒交迫的时候，她是不是愿意与你相伴相随；看一个男人是否真的爱你，要看他在春风得意的时候，他还是不是还对你呵护备至。
Whether a woman really loves you depends on whether she is willing to accompany you when you are hungry or cold; whether a man really loves you depends on whether he still cares for you when he is proud of the spring breeze.
十四、好好吃饭，按时睡觉；不要抱怨，心怀善念；坚持做自己喜欢做的事；用心感受生活的每一个细节，沉淀，再沉淀，因为你要成为一个温柔而强大的人。
Eat well, sleep on time; dont complain, cherish good thoughts; stick to what you like to do; feel every detail of life, precipitate, precipitate again, because you want to be a gentle and powerful person.
十五、那些在背后对你说三道四捏造故事的人，无非就三个原因：没达到你的层次；你有的东西他没有；模仿你的生活方式未遂。
Those who tell you three or four fabricated stories behind your back are all for three reasons: they dont reach your level; they dont have what you have; they fail to imitate your way of life.
十六、别太理会人家背后怎么说你，因为那些比你强的人，根本懒得提起你。诋毁，本身就是一种仰望。
Dont pay too much attention to what people say behind your back, because those who are better than you dont bother to mention you at all. Defamation is an expectation in itself.
十七、这世界上，没有能回去的感情。就算真的回去了，你也会发现，一切已经面目全非。唯一能回去的，只是存于心底的记忆。是的，回不去了，所以，我们只能一直往前。
In this world, there is no feeling to go back. Even if you really go back, you will find that everything is totally different. The only thing that can go back is the memory in the bottom of my heart. Yes, we cant go back, so we have to go straight ahead.
十八、当面夸你天花乱坠的，背后却是诋毁你最狠的；当面骂你傻瓜笨蛋的，通常却是疼爱你最真的。人不可看外貌，道貌岸然最可怕；话不可听当下，阴奉阳违最可恨。
Those who praise you face to face are the ones who denigrate you the most; those who scold you face to face are usually the ones who love you the most. Man cant look at his appearance, but his morality is the most terrible; he cant listen to what he says at the moment, and its the most hateful thing to violate Yin and Yang.
十九、从现在开始，不沉溺幻想，不庸人自扰，踏实工作，好好生活，做一个接近幸福的人。From now on, do not indulge in fantasy, do not bother others, work steadfastly, live a good life, be a person close to happiness.
二十、星光不问赶路人，时光不负有心人。大概没去过的地方都叫远方，没得到的人都比较难忘。
The stars dont ask the passers-by, and time bears no burden on them. Maybe the places we havent visited are called distant places. People who havent got them are more unforgettable.
