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SUCCESS SECRET 3
See Yourself as Self-Employed
I am the captain of my soul;I am the master of my fate.—WILLIAM HENLEY
FROM NOW ON, accept complete,100 percent responsibility for everything you are and everything you will ever be. Refuse to make excuses or to blame other people for your problems or shortcomings. Stop complaining about things in your life that you are not happy about. Refuse to criticize other people for anything. You are responsible. If there is something in your life that you don’t like, it is up to you to change it. You are in charge.
The top 3 percent of Americans see themselves as self-employed, no matter who signs their paychecks.The biggest mistake you can ever make is to think that you work for anyone other than yourself. You are always self-employed. You are always the president of your own personal service corporation, no matter where you might be working at the moment.
When you see yourself as self-employed, you develop an entrepreneur mentality, the mentality of highly independent, self-responsible, self-starting individuals. Instead of waiting for things to happen,you make things happen. You see yourself as the boss of your own life. You see yourself as completely in charge of your physical health, your financial wellbeing, your career, your relationships, your lifestyle,your home, your car, and every other element of your existence. This is the mind-set of the self-made millionaire.
Self-responsible people are intensely result oriented. They always take high levels of initiative. They volunteer for assignments and are always asking for more responsibility. As a result, they become the most valuable and respected people in their organizations.They continually prepare themselves for positions of higher authority and responsibility in the future. You should do the same.
Here’s a question: If you were president of your company for a day or were completely responsible for results where you work, what one change would you enact immediately?
Whatever it is, write it down, make a plan, and begin implementing it today.This action alone could change your life.
ACTION EXERCISE
Identify your favorite reasons and excuses for not committing wholeheartedly to your financial goals. Is there anyone or anything in your life that you are blaming for holding you back?Whatever it might be, accept complete responsibility for your life and take action today!
成功秘诀3
把自己看作是自我雇佣者
我是我灵魂的船长；我是我命运的主人。——威廉·亨利
从现在开始，对你现在和将来的一切承担完全的、100%的责任。拒绝为你的问题或缺点找借口或指责他人。停止抱怨你生活中不满意的事情。拒绝为任何事情批评他人。你是有责任的。如果你的生活中有你不喜欢的东西，应该由你来改变它。你是要负责的。
美国最顶尖的3%的人都认为自己是自我雇佣者，无论谁付他们工资（无论谁在他们的工资单上签字）。你可能犯的最大错误是认为你在为除自己以外的其他人工作。你永远是自我雇佣者。你永远是你自己的个人服务公司的总裁，无论你现在在哪里工作。
当你把自己看作自我雇佣者时，你就会形成一种企业家心态，即高度独立、自我负责、自我启动的心态。你不是在等待事情发生，而是你让事情发生。你把自己看作是你自己生活的老板。你为你的身体健康，财务状况，职业，关系，生活方式，房子，车子，以及其他与你存在相关的元素完全负责。这就是自食其力的百万富翁的心态。
自我负责的人是强烈结果导向的。他们总是有很高的主观能动性。他们自愿承担任务，并且总是要求承担更多的责任。因此，他们将成为组织中最有价值和最受尊重的人。他们不断为未来拥有更高权力和责任的职位做准备。你也应该这样做。
这里有一个问题：如果让你当你们公司一天的总裁，或者让你对你的工作结果完全负责，你会立即进行哪一项改变？
不管是什么，把它写下来，制定一个计划，并在今天开始实施。仅仅这一个行动就可以改变你的生活。
行动练习
找出你没有为了达成财务目标而竭尽全力最爱使用的理由。你会把你的不全力以赴归咎于你生活中任何人或任何事在阻止你吗？不管它是什么，请为你的生活承担全部责任，今天就采取行动吧！
来自译者的思考：
想起了笑来老师在《通往财富自由之路》里也提到说为自己打工，工作是为了自己的成长。所以转换心态之后就变成了，个人成长随便拿一份工资，美滋滋~
以及根源老师说的，感到任何不舒服都是自己的问题，自己是什么样的人，是什么能量等级，就会吸引到同样的人和事。所以，不要抱怨，不要指责，老老实实修炼自己就好了。
突然想说，之所以会抱怨，就是觉得别人做得不好，责任是别人的。如果觉得自己也有责任的话，就不会抱怨了。
我们要为我们生活中发生的所有事情负全责。
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